November 18, 2012

• this boy is 6!

  We have been in birthday celebration mode pretty much all week! Although it’s definitely winding down, we still have yet ONE MORE special evening planned. This was mainly due in part to, ‘Mom got too partied out and needed a break in between the 2 party days to recoup and sit down for more than 5 minutes’, in which case we only get to spread the festivities out that much longer! It is a win-win for all!

  Today is the day most special of all. Today he actually turned this long awaited and talked about 6. “Mom, it’s fun to be a whole NEW year, but I’m going to miss 5.” That right there made/makes me smile inside because THAT is my Asher. He is sensitive, conscious, cautious, hardworking and diligent (usually!). He is also in tune to feelings. Much of that right now is learning about his own and how to handle and deal with them the right way.

  Many times a snap shot in life takes place and only moments after I feel a gentle tap on my arm and a quiet voice by my side, “Mom, did I hurt your feelings when I _________.” Or, “Mom, do you think Dad was sad when I said/did ___________.” When I stop to really think about what his little heart is pondering I realize this boy is one who cares about the little things and how those little things can really affect someone.

  I am so thankful for Asher. He is a treasure to our family, to me. Lately when I think of Asher, this firstborn, I have been thinking ‘brother’. He is a good big brother and I am proud of him!

  Sunshining Asher. This child brings joy to my heart and often myself to knees in prayer. I know a lot is in store for him. I feel the weight of his calling often and wonder, “How did I get this unique and wondrous package to care for? I am not fit to be this kind of special mom for such a special person who will one day be a man.” But somehow by God’s grace and power in me I am exactly what this boy needs for a mom. I am humbled beyond measure to have the influence I have been called to and perfectly made fit to have in his life.

  What an incredible blessing and responsibility! Our first born gem, Asher: (happy, blessed) Lucas.

  

  
   
  Brother, Asher.

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